Living Well with Money
- David Haseldine
- 2 days ago
- 3 min read

Financial Advice Isn’t Just About Money. It’s About How You Live.
For decades, financial advice has largely followed a familiar model.
Performance.
Returns.
Asset allocation.
Spreadsheets and projections.
These things matter. But on their own, they don’t tell the full story of a person’s financial life.
At The Updated Investor, we don’t believe you can separate a person’s life from their money. The two are completely intertwined. Every financial decision is a life decision, and every life change has financial consequences.
So when we talk about money, we’re really talking about how someone lives, how they feel, and how secure they are in the choices they’re making.
Traditional Financial Reviews vs Financial Certainty
Traditional financial reviews tend to ask one core question:
“How is your portfolio performing?”
Our approach starts with a different question:
“How certain do you feel about your financial life?”
You can be tracking well against benchmarks and still feel anxious, uncertain, or out of control. That gap between numbers and lived experience is where many traditional advice models fall short.
That’s why we introduced the Financial Certainty Scorecards™.
Measuring What Traditional Models Don’t
The Financial Certainty Scorecards™ are designed to measure what balance sheets and performance reports can’t.
They help us understand:
How confident someone feels about their financial decisions
Whether their money supports their lifestyle and values
Where uncertainty, stress, or avoidance may be creeping in
How resilient they feel in the face of change or market volatility
Rather than focusing purely on outcomes, the scorecards assess financial wellbeing, clarity, and confidence across key areas of a person’s life.
This gives us a more accurate picture of someone’s true financial health - not just on paper, but in practice.
Awareness Before Action
One of the most powerful outcomes of using the Financial Certainty Scorecards™ is awareness.
Most people either underestimate how well they’re doing and carry unnecessary worry, or overestimate their position and stretch themselves too thin. Both create stress. Both lead to reactive decisions.
The scorecards help clients see their situation clearly, without judgment. They create a shared language for conversations that are often hard to articulate.
When people understand where their uncertainty comes from, they’re far better placed to make calm, deliberate decisions.
Supporting Clients Through Real Life
Life doesn’t move in straight lines.
Jobs change.
Health issues arise.
Markets fall.
Plans shift.
During these periods, we often revisit the Financial Certainty Scorecards™ to identify what needs attention now, not what looked good six months ago.
Sometimes the priority isn’t returns - it’s stability, cashflow, or simply restoring confidence. The scorecards help guide those conversations and keep decisions aligned with what matters most in that moment.
A More Human Model of Financial Advice
We regularly ask questions that traditional models overlook:
How are you feeling about your financial situation?
Does your money support the life you want to live?
Are your goals aligned with your wellbeing and values?
Because money doesn’t exist in isolation.
When financial advice reflects the reality of a person’s life, not just their portfolio, clarity improves, stress reduces, and decisions become easier to live with.
That’s what we mean by Financial Certainty.
Not just accumulating wealth, but living with confidence, clarity, and calm, knowing your money supports the life you want to live.










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